tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-252504262024-03-06T20:30:58.343-08:00Confessions of a PessioptimistI go from Hot, to Cold to Funny.
Which am I today?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-26407279994712436262006-09-11T10:58:00.000-07:002006-09-11T11:02:08.837-07:00Strive for Sans EmotionIn my short lifetime, I've learned a very important lesson. One in which I involuntarily refuse to grasp.<br /><br />No emotion = GOOD<br /><br />Emotion = BAD<br /><br />I'm constantly reminded that, whenever you express yourself passionately, emotionally... basically.. being real... that is highly frowned upon. Then you're dramatic.. over the top...extra..etc.<br /><br />What is so wrong with being real?<br /><br />It seems to me that the people who are the most respected are those who hide the majority of their feelings. Those who don't express themselves openly. Those whom.. you often don't know what they are thinking.<br /><br />It's curious to me. What's ironic to me about this post is that I'm portraying this thought to you, while knowing that it makes me look weak.<br /><br />Humans are interesting. Feel free not to tell me how you feel about this post.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-85522623485687898022006-09-06T05:50:00.001-07:002006-09-06T05:50:32.501-07:00Dave Chapelle's Lost Episodes<br /><br />**Please note the imitation of Andre 3000.. funniest part in there, IMO**<br /><br /><object width="425" height="350"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/rUKlaSeWLJ8"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/rUKlaSeWLJ8" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="350"></embed></object>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-65786791911662673752006-09-05T06:40:00.000-07:002006-09-05T06:43:34.169-07:00my newest obsession<object width="425" height="350"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/Y8Qh3Pv1Jws"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/Y8Qh3Pv1Jws" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="350"></embed></object><br /><br />Lupe Fiasco "I gotcha"Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-54850174222391080512006-08-31T11:54:00.000-07:002006-08-31T12:03:01.246-07:00Life.Okay so I'm back from my blogger hiatus.<br /><br />It wasn't really a hiatus, per se'... nothing but pure laziness to come post again... but I'm back and that's all that matters so shut up and thanks.<br /><br />What's on my mind right now are PEOPLE.<br /><br />I should have been a psychologist or something because the human mind works so in such an interesting way. It is predictable, but it isn't. It is logical, but it doesn't have to be. It is complicated but can be very simple. All depending on the person.<br /><br />The human being can be very selective. As in...they can tell you everything that is wrong with you, have the very SAME or similar problems with themselves, and never see it, nor want to hear it.<br /><br />You know what irks me? When people cease being real. The people who are fine until something rocks the boat.. until some drama comes along, and then they want to retreat... as if something else dramatic won't come their way in the very near future.<br /><br />I am not advocating people WANTING to live with drama or LOOKING for drama... however, realistically, drama happens. Shit happens. There is nothing anyone can do about that when being social with other humans.<br /><br />So in turn, to be dramatic and withdraw yourself from a situation that may have a little drama to it is highly unrealistic in my opinion. Unless you want to live under a rock for the rest of your life and not interact with ANYONE, you need to deal with it. <br /><br />Once again, I'm not talking about random ass, over-the-top drama. I'm talking about LIFE. <br /><br />That really irks me about some people. In fact, people who live at either spectrum irk me. Meaning, people who refuse to deal with things irk me,and people who are overly dramatic ALL THE TIME irk me.<br /><br />I don't know.. just venting.<br /><br />Anyway, I should be back, at least for a little while... :)Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-1150227681977832462006-06-13T12:38:00.000-07:002006-06-13T12:41:21.986-07:00Watch Out For the Big Girls<object width="425" height="350"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/eKRYbwCIF9w"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/eKRYbwCIF9w" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="350"></embed></object><br /><br />First Seen @ <a href="http://www.novaslim.com/">NovaSlim</a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-1149820751554684852006-06-08T19:38:00.000-07:002006-06-08T19:39:11.556-07:00the saga continues....<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/moshoes.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px;" src="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/moshoes.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/moshoes2.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px;" src="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/moshoes2.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><br />i told you it was on, didn't i?Unknownnoreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-1149820614518713902006-06-08T19:32:00.000-07:002006-06-08T19:36:54.533-07:00old is the new young<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/Old-woman.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px;" src="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/Old-woman.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br />So I have tried to take time and reflect on the fact that I will be 27 in T-6 days. I haven't made a big deal of my birthdays since... I was like..16 maybe? I know people who have to make big theatrical productions of their birthdays or else their world will fall upon itself.<br /><br />It's a nice day but ... in reality it's just another one. I'm still in my mid-20's, still on the grind, still working through the curves that life throws me on the regular. <br /><br />I'm noticing more and more nowadays that young girls are latching on to me as a mentor of some sorts.<br /><br />if they only knew.<br /><br />seriously though... i've been able to give them good advice as well. I can't say that I've changed much in the last few years.. i've always been pretty low-key and drama-free... sure i may have punched a chick a few years ago, and used to jump in Sigma stroll lines like it was nothing (can i do that jumpin-hoppin-spinnin stuff nowadays...NAH.)<br /><br />I actually like growing up, even though being an adult SUCKS ass and if you don't believe me, ask an adult.<br /><br />After all, if you look at even just celebrities, they look kinda tore up in their early years, but in their 30's and 40's they look fabulous. That's what I wanna be, a fabulous 30 year old. That's what's up. At least I have time to prepare.<br /><br />Additionally, don't let anyone convince you that the older you get the more mature you get. I call shenanigans on that, and for exhibit A i point you to the 50 year old nigga at the club with the kangol and tight TODD SMITH shirt on still runnin after the lil girls.... or the 30 year old man who got 8 kids by 8 different women and still going strong.<br /><br />IMO, maturity is a lifestyle choice. We all have choices to make, daily, and we could all choose to do immature things on the regular... or not. no doubt, some folks personalities lean towards mature/immature, and that's how they always have been, but that doesn't change the fact that people make choices based on their situations.<br /><br />That being said... on June 14th, 2006, for everyone reading this, have a glass of Chocolate Cask & Creme for me, in the most uncelebratory way possible. <br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/cask.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px;" src="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/cask.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-1148611356214787022006-05-25T19:41:00.000-07:002006-05-25T19:42:36.220-07:00Mockery or Inspiration?<embed width="352" height="308" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" src="http://vid72.photobucket.com/player.swf?file=http://vid72.photobucket.com/albums/i198/sexylilah/sayyeah-childpreacher.flv"></embed><br /><br /><strong>You be the judge.</strong>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-1148355239920856552006-05-22T20:33:00.000-07:002006-05-22T20:33:59.926-07:00The Hotness - 5.22.06<object width="425" height="350"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/O_yWIjzsK-I"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/O_yWIjzsK-I" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="350"></embed></object><br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Lim Jeong Hee - "I Can Wait for you"</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-1148255821963742572006-05-21T16:40:00.000-07:002006-05-21T17:00:00.243-07:00Being GrownI want to preface this by saying that I wasn't going to blog about this but eh.. it's on my mind, I have the time, why not?<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.burienstudio.com/Images/Teenage-blackGirl-Big.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px;" src="http://www.burienstudio.com/Images/Teenage-blackGirl-Big.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><br />The other day I was listening to this afternoon show on the local 'hip hop/R&B' station and the host decided instead of doing his usual mindless answer-these-questions-but-if-you-get-them-wrong-<br />imma-hang-up-on-you-and-embarrass-you game to discuss the <a href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/6083442/">Dateline Pedophile series of stories</a>.<br /><br />These stories concerned the host a lot, it seemed, and what concerned him even more was that when he opened the lines up for people to call in with their opinions, a girl who identified herself as 15 years old (Keisha, btw) decided to speak her mind.<br /><br />Here's pretty much how the call went:<br /><span style="font-style:italic;">Keisha:</span>Hey, this me.<br /><span style="font-style:italic;">DJ:<span style="font-style:italic;"></span></span> Okay say what you have to say..<br /><span style="font-style:italic;">Keisha:<span style="font-style:italic;"></span></span> okay um.. it's like this... if I wanna do whoeva I wanna do, imma do it, yanno what i'm sayin, and can't nobody do nothin about it..<br /><span style="font-style:italic;">DJ:</span> You do know it's against that's against the law right?<br /><span style="font-style:italic;">Keisha:</span> yeah I know but I don't care, imma do what imma do<br /><span style="font-style:italic;">DJ: </span>So you say you have had sex with an older man before?<br /><span style="font-style:italic;">Keisha:<span style="font-style:italic;"></span></span> Yeah...he was 33..and I'd do it again<br /><span style="font-style:italic;">DJ:</span> ummm.. alright.. thanks for your call<br /><br />SO... I could sit here and ask the eternal question... WHY? But I already know why. Especially in this day and age, kids think they can do and say anything they want w/o consequences...and the parents (i use this term loosely) LET this happen... why people don't want to act like parents anymore, I don't really know. I don't wanna say it's people being lazy cause.. laziness is not a brand new social construct. Perhaps it is more acceptable to be lazy with your parenting? Maybe.<br /><br />But teenage girls in particular... (teenage boys too, but im gonna speak on what I have experienced. as I was once a teenage girl) think they know everything and believe that any rules or regulations put to them is chokingly unfair. Unless the teenage girl is mature for her age (MENTALLY!)then most likely she is going to do some things w/o really weighing out the consequences.<br /><br />This girl Keisha who called in to this show thinks she's grown. It makes me wonder why no one has told Keisha that since she thinks she is so grown and can do what she want, she can pack herself a lil bag with all her shit and go get herself a job and an apartment. Let that suck-ass adult life settle and see how fast she runs back to mommy talkin about she sorry and she didn't realize....Being an adult is NOT the hotness. Though I can't quite say I would wish for my childhood back, I recognize how much easier I had it as a child.<br /><br />I say all this to say.. bring back corporal punishment.<br /><br /><br /><br />just kidding.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />kinda.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-1148002982238986202006-05-18T18:27:00.000-07:002006-05-18T18:47:58.996-07:00Change is goooooood...and canklesSo I hope my readers out there like my new layout... it was time for a change..<br /><br />yes.. it's purple... <br /><br />No I'm not obssessed with Prince... <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.cbsnews.com/images/2006/03/22/imageLA10303220200.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px;" src="http://www.cbsnews.com/images/2006/03/22/imageLA10303220200.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br />*double takes*<br /><br />Damn that's a pretty mothafugga.<br /><br />what was I saying?<br /><br />oh yeah, purple. I love purple. It was the main color of my wedding, and I keep purple in my office.... so anyway.. while ya'll enjoy the new setting of my blog..<br /><br />let's talk about a menace to society.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">CANKLES.</span><br /><br />For those of you who are not familiar with CANKLES, they are, in so many words <span style="font-weight:bold;">FAT ASS ANKLES.</span><br /><br />Now, my ankles ain't the slimmest, nor the trimmest, however, my little brother has recently hit puberty and is in that 'funny lookin' stage... he is now covered with hair, very wolverine-like (it appeared damn near over night) and he now has cankles.. he's not a fat kid, he doesn't know when the newest snacks are coming out, doesn't know when the twinkie with the glitter that shoot in yo mouth is making it's debut, anything like that. He's a little chubby, but not fat.. but his ANKLES went horizontal all of a sudden...<br /><br />exhibit a:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="[IMG]http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/P5170028.jpg[/IMG]"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px;" src="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/P5170028.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><br />exhibit b:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/P5170027.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px;" src="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/P5170027.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><br /><br />This boy is only 14 ya'll.. yet he has the ankles of a 62 year old. Why? Just WHY?<br /><br />At least they go with his act.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/P5020013.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px;" src="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/P5020013.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><br />Catch him at the <span style="font-weight:bold;">Funny Bone</span> in 15 years... he'll be the black dude with the big ass ankles.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-1147436339440866612006-05-12T05:18:00.000-07:002006-05-12T05:18:59.446-07:00The Hotness - May 12th, 2006<object width="425" height="350"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/tGX3dTrlN48"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/tGX3dTrlN48" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="350"></embed></object><br /><br /><strong>"Written All Over your Face" - Rude Boyz ft. Gerald Levert</strong>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-1147270322422221742006-05-10T07:03:00.000-07:002006-05-10T07:13:28.053-07:00Good Samaritans are AssholesSo, we all know that Gas Prices are basically raping us and not calling in the morning.<br /><br />Especially for those of us who commute, like myself. I have a great mileage car, but with prices as they are, I have to fill up twice a week....$30 bucks a pop ... when I first got my car in 2005, it took $12 to fill up.<br /><br />Yeah.<br /><br /><a href="http://wthr.images.worldnow.com/images/4883455_BG1.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px;" src="http://wthr.images.worldnow.com/images/4883455_BG1.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a>So yesterday, there was a <a href="http://www.wthr.com/Global/story.asp?S=4883455">computer 'glitch' at a local gas station....</a> where the gas was below a penny for the morning rush. <br /><br />The only reason why the glitch was found out and addressed, was because some asshole told them. Now if that's not hater-quality, I don't know what is. <br /><br />I mean, isn't it obvious that we are being gipped and over-charged for gas? Why not just take it as a payment for taking it in the ass so well at the pump? Nawww. <br /><br />And I know this was a white person who did this.<br /><br />You had to take your ass to the gas station attendant and say something along the lines of..<br /><em><br />"heh heh... HI! My name is Mas.Siv Tool, and I just wanted you to know that for some odd reason, I was only charged .022 cents per gallon for gas. Ya wanna uh.. do something about that?"</em><br /><br /><br />That's when the gas station attendant shoulda said "Thank You" and shot him/her in the face.<br /><br />Do I sound bitter? yeah. I won't deny that assessment.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-1146850117466345402006-05-05T10:11:00.000-07:002006-05-05T10:32:20.690-07:00are you afraid?While listening to my cds this morning on my way to work, I decided to pop in Jill Scott's latest. After listening to "I Am Not Afraid" for the 50th time in my life, I thought to a friend's blog the other day, where he was speaking about how he had so many doubts in his life, and was somewhat afraid of where he was going and how he was going to get there.. if at all.<br /><br />I think a lot of us 20-somethings... and maybe even 30-somethings and 40-somethings feel that way.<br /><br />- Am I up to par with my peers?<br />- Am I living up to my parent's expecations?<br />- Am I living up to MY expectations?<br />- Did I make the right career move?<br />- Did I get the right degree?<br />- Do people think that I am successful?<br />- Do people think I am a failure?<br />- Am I afraid of committment?<br />- Is my Significant Other afraid of committment?<br />- I'm a pretty rockin person.. why can't I find my mate?<br />- Did I move to the wrong city at the wrong time?<br /><br />To all those questions, I don't have all the answers, cause I, admittedly, ask myself some of those questions. But I will ask this... do you have so many questions and in limbo because you're afraid of taking a chance?<br /><br />I'm learning more and more in life that you have to take the chance, regardless of what decision you make. Nothing is guaranteed, nothing is a sure thing. But I do notice that many of my peers waffle a lot... afraid of what will happen. Afraid that they are settling. Afraid that they're really incompetent. Afraid to take that next step with a significant other.. because after all.. what if?<br /><br />I feel like this. If you ask yourself enough what if's, you'll remain in a holding pattern and continually run yourself into a circle, and eventually into a wall.<br /><br />think about your life right now. Do you have a decision to make? Have you had that decision for a while? <br /><br />I challenge you to not be afraid... after all, God didn't give ANYBODY the spirit of fear... so that means....:)<br /><br /><a href="http://celebopedia.com/jill-scott/images/jill-scott.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px;" src="http://celebopedia.com/jill-scott/images/jill-scott.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><br />Thanks Jilly from Philly. (she does a FABULOUS concert too!)Unknownnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-1146833331653723102006-05-05T05:48:00.000-07:002006-05-05T05:48:51.660-07:00The Hotness - May 5th, 2006<object width="425" height="350"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/M6sGWGlwDr0"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/M6sGWGlwDr0" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="350"></embed></object><br /><br /><strong>Stevie Wonder - "Dont You Worry 'bout a Thing"</strong>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-1146361919535979532006-04-29T18:29:00.000-07:002006-04-29T18:55:14.416-07:00Shoes, Glorious Shoes....I have a deep hidden love affair with shoes.<br /><br />I have never been the type to splurge on any one thing (cept for maybe chocolate, and I don't have to explain myself to you people), but my love for good shoes has been developing more and more as time passes.<br /><br />Today my momma took me shopping and I purchased these shoes I picked out... which I have totally fallen in love with.<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/shoes.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px;" src="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/shoes.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><br />These Bandolinos stole my heart. They also match my neutral color outfits. I will have to fight myself to not rock those to church tommorow.<br /><br />These open-toed Nine Wests I will be rockin at church tommorow, however:<br /><br /><a href="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/shoes2.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px;" src="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/shoes2.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><br />I am looking forward to purchasing some gorgeous Espadrilles & wedges soon...<br /><br />These are hot....<br /><br /><a href="http://www.shoemall.com/assets/product_images/119195L.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px;" src="http://www.shoemall.com/assets/product_images/119195L.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><br /><br />Yummy.<br /><br /><a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/34/2635/1600/shoes.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/34/2635/320/shoes.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><br /><br />These, with the right outfit, can be fabulous (i'm starting to sound like Ms. Jay aren't I?)<br /><br /><a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/34/2635/1600/shoes2.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/34/2635/320/shoes2.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br />mmmmmmmm. heaven.<br /><br /><a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/34/2635/1600/shoes3.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/34/2635/320/shoes3.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><br /><br />Let me stop drooling. <br /><br />Let's just say that ya girl will be stepping up her shoe game this summer. <br /><br />It's going DOWN.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-1145819078643748372006-04-23T11:52:00.000-07:002006-04-23T12:04:38.653-07:00Nashville LessonsI have recently moved back to Indiana (woo woo), where my family is, and where I have recently acquired a new job. There were lots of things that I didn't appreciate about Nashville, but if anything, I can definately glean lessons that I feel I have acquired from my time there.<br /><br />Oftentimes, good or bad, I tend to reflect upon a situation and try to figure out what I've learned, as I feel that life is fulla lessons. And all that cliched stuff.<br /><br />So here's what I've learned from my year of residence in Nashville, TN:<br /><br />- <strong>I really dislike country music 'lifestyle'.</strong> Though I can appreciate some country music, Nashville is really deep into the country music thing, and on the 5 o'clock news they'll talk about what some country music star has planted in their front yard. Who gives a crap? And why is it on some news that is supposed to be relevant?<br /><br />- <strong>I don't have to fight every fight.</strong> I'm a person who loves debates, and for the most part, is pretty logical. There have been situations I've been presented with in where I could have gone on and on, kept it alive, and over what? dumbness. I think with my age, i'm starting to realize that I don't have to show someone how dumb they are constantly or pick someone apart... because regardless the world will keep a-spinnin'.<br /><br />- <strong>Crazy people begat crazy people & crazy people are allergic to logic.</strong> That pretty much is self-explanatory. They say that you have to speak to people in a language they understand. And since I don't speak crazy, that limits my communication skills.<br /><br />- <strong>Continue to be proud of the decisions that I make.</strong> I've made various decisions in the past few months, where I look back on them and can truly appreciate the decision I made. Some of the decisions were untimely, some were perfectly timed, but in the end, the benefit of those decisions has outweighed any initial negativity.<br /><br />- <strong>God is the head of my life.</strong> There are things that have happened to me that I know God was directing, the result was just THAT amazing. <br /><br />- <strong>I have great friends. </strong> The people who I became friends with (and/or) cultivated my relationship with have not let me down. They have come through when I didn't expect them to, and that will definately not end now that I'm in a different place.<br /><br />I'm looking forward to starting my life with my husband in Indiana, with bigger, better and brighter things to come...I'll keep you posted. :)Unknownnoreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-1145306479582532012006-04-17T13:40:00.000-07:002006-04-17T13:41:19.590-07:00The Hotness - April 17, 2006<object width="425" height="350"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/iCaPno7QChY"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/iCaPno7QChY" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="350"></embed></object><br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Jill Scott & George Benson - Summertime</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-1145125816006510352006-04-15T11:16:00.000-07:002006-04-15T11:33:33.310-07:00It's funny till it's youI'm beginning to respect South Park more and more.<br /><br />I remember when South Park came out, and I was intrigued by the raunchy humor and societal insight. The popularity of the show has waned a bit in the last few years, but because of recent events, South Park is back in the headlines.<br /><br />First, South Park took a stand against Isaac Hayes, who had no problem when other religions were skewered and joked upon, but when scientology was the victim, <a href="http://entertainment.msn.com/tv/article.aspx?news=218421>1=7703">he left the show.</a><br /><br />WACK.<br /><br />It's funny till it's you huh.<br /><br />Now, South Park took aim at Comedy Central for <a href="http://www.duluthsuperior.com/mld/grandforks/entertainment/14348293.htm?source=rss&channel=grandforks_entertainment">censoring the image of Mohammed</a> on one of their recent episodes. <br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://worldnetdaily.com/images2/comedycentral2.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px;" src="http://worldnetdaily.com/images2/comedycentral2.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br />In the episode, they instead show Al Queda members portraying Jesus defecating on George Bush and the American Flag. <br /><br />Why not, I say? <br /><br />Now, I understand the fact that this is such a big issue with the reaction of Muslims to the Danish newspapers making a cartoon portraying Mohammed. But when <span style="font-weight:bold;">I</span> watched many of the news commentary shows, I got the impression that people felt like Muslims were being big fat babies and making much ado about nothing. In fact, people touted the 1st amendment and how people should NOT be censored, or anything of the sort.<br /><br />Yet in still, after this episode aired, I saw religious zealots on news commentary shows condemning the episode and South Park's creators. These SAME religious zealots weren't cheering on the Muslims in their disgust of the portrayal of Mohammed, yet now it's a problem?<br /><br />It's funny till it's you, eh?<br /><br />I'm in agreement with the creators, it's all okay or none of it is okay.<br /><br />and by the way, Happy Resurrection Weekend, ya'll.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-1144804370648927772006-04-11T18:11:00.000-07:002006-04-11T18:12:50.656-07:00The Hotness - April 11, 2006<object width="425" height="350"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/XkZGWNlJ8S0"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/XkZGWNlJ8S0" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="350"></embed></object><br /><br />Rebbie Jackson - "Centipede"Unknownnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-1144536603516869112006-04-08T15:20:00.000-07:002006-04-08T16:16:27.110-07:00my people my peopleToday, me and my good friend M went to the Women's Expo in Indianapolis, IN.<br /><br />If anyone is familiar with Indianapolis, they know that the Black Expo, which takes place in the summertime, is off the chain, and the biggest Black Expo in the country.<br /><br />The Women's Expo is like it's country cousin they locked in the basement. It's 1/4th the size of Black Expo, and damn near 1/4th the size in quality.<br /><br />I did cop some lovely sunglasses though. 7 dolla from the African man.<br /><br />So anyway, when we walked up in the spot, it was pretty boring. Booths for makeup, Booths for insurance... real estate... positivity, I suppose.<br /><br />Until we reached the belly of the beast.<br /><br />The Hair Show Booths.<br /><br />Of course you know I had my camera in tow. Let us go there, shall we?<br /><br /><a href="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/crazyhair2.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px;" src="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/crazyhair2.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><br />This poor soul was the first woman I saw. I don't know if she was going for the TROPICAL feel... How Stella Blew Her Back Out... whatever... I didn't try to understand, I just shot the picture.<br /><br />Note the mona lisa smile she was wearing... kinda like "i'm cute HELPMETHEYDIDTHISTOME!"<br /><br /><a href="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/crazyhair3.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px;" src="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/crazyhair3.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><br />Um, this chick I kinda ran up on? I don't even think she knew I was taking the picture. However, there was a lady behind me chuckling, talkin about "yeah you kinda have to take a picture or no one will believe you!"<br /><br />Exactly.<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/crazyhair.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px;" src="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/crazyhair.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><br /><br />Okay, CLEARLY this woman was proud. She doesn't seem to be aware that she has a burned, charcoal peacock posted on her scalp.<br /><br />I bet dat nigga salty.<br /><br /><br />Moving on from hair, shall we go to nails?<br /><br />We were told that these ladies were being judged on who had the best nails. <br /><br /><a href="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/waternails.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px;" src="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/waternails.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><br /><br />You can't really see from the photo, but this woman has water in her nails... with glitter. Kinda like, those little snowglobes you get around christmas. I'm sure if she could have, she would have placed a tiny key that you turn and makes the nails play "Ms. New Booty" or something decidedly ghett-tastic.<br /><br /><a href="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/scrabblenails.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px;" src="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/scrabblenails.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><br />*breath*<br /><br />This woman has scrabbles in her nails. NO, I didn't stutter. She literally has mini scrabble pieces in her nails. Is Scrabble the game of choice in the projects? Okay, that was wrong, but come onnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn.....<br /><br /><a href="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/eliviranails.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px;" src="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/eliviranails.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><br />This young lady was doing a Ghetto Elvira impression... or something of the sort. She had spiderwebs drawn onto the side of her face, wore some gothic outfit, and had on gothic jewelry.<br /><br />If you're curious, I voted for her, simply because she was in character. Whatever... character she was going for.<br /><br />The redeeming moment of the expo was Shanice <em>"I Love Your Smile"</em> performing...<br /><br /><a href="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/shanice.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px;" src="http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c59/ambboogie/shanice.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><br />She looked REALLY good, as you can see, and even though her performance was kinda corny, she sounded fabulous. <br /><br />She sang her new song <strong>"Every Woman Dreams"</strong>, and I really like it, I may have to cop it.<br /><br /><a href="http://g-images.amazon.com/images/G/01/ciu/dc/59/1430b220dca082bb2de89010._AA240_.L.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px;" src="http://g-images.amazon.com/images/G/01/ciu/dc/59/1430b220dca082bb2de89010._AA240_.L.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><br /><br />$14.98 on <a href="http://www.amazon.com">Amazon.com</a>, ya'll.<br /><br />So kids, even though the expo in all, was wack, the entertainment was redeeming enough.... such is life!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-1144102940780356172006-04-03T15:21:00.000-07:002006-04-03T15:39:53.880-07:00The Hotness - April 3rd, 2006<object width="425" height="350"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/zXlvhGPvakM"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/zXlvhGPvakM" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="350"></embed></object><br /><br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Crystal Kay - "Kirakuni"</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-1144082774941151332006-04-03T09:16:00.000-07:002006-04-03T09:54:59.443-07:00MJ Throwback: Don't Just Leave me AloneYou remember that song by MJ... that horrible... grammatically incorrect titled song <span style="font-weight: bold;">"Don't Just leave me alone"</span>..... I'm feeling some kinda way about that song right about now.<br /><br />Lemme be a bit more specific.<br /><br />Now, I admit, I have become a blog/website jumper. They just keep callin me man. I got these cheeeeseburgers mayne....lol<br /><br />So I've joined these random sites that have blogs, I post and then I abandon them with posthaste. As evidenced by my dead blogs... R.I.P <a href="http://www.xanga.com">Xanga</a>.... R.I.P. <a href="http://www.yahoo.com">Yahoo 360</a>...my blog at <a href="http://www.myspace.com">myspace</a> is in a coma. Even just websites that I was a member, with my lil picture and my little cute information about myself... R.I.P. <a href="http://www.facebook.com">Facebook</a>... R.I.P and GOOD Riddance <a href="http://www.blackplanet.com">BlackPlanet</a>.... R.I.P. <a href="http://www.hi5.com">Hi-5</a>.....<br /><br />but seemingly, no matter where I have been, I still am not immune from RIDICULOUS private messages/instant messages.... most of them containing soliliquies on how beautiful I am and can I 'holla at a playa'.... Let's just IGNORE the fact that I am listed as married, and generally post pictures up with me and my husband....<br /><br />por ejemplo:<br /><br />From <a href="http://www.myspace.com">Myspace</a> today:<br /><table bg border="0" cellpadding="5" cellspacing="1" width="100%" style="color:#c5d8eb;"><tbody><tr bg valign="middle" style="color:#ffffff;"><td bg width="14%" style="color:#e8f1fa;"><span class="blacktext10"> From: </span></td> <td width="86%"> <a href="http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=61541133"> <img src="http://myspace-048.vo.llnwd.net/00557/84/04/557584048_s.jpg" align="absmiddle" /></a> <span class="text"><a href="http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=61541133">prince</a></span> <br /><div style="width: 80px; height: 20px;" id="UserDataNode0" class="DataPoint=OnlineNow;UserID=61541133;"><img src="http://i.myspace.com/site/images/clear.gif" border="0" height="20" width="80" /></div> </td> </tr> <tr bg valign="middle" style="color:#ffffff;"> <td bg width="14%" style="color:#e8f1fa;"><span class="blacktext10">Date:</span></td> <td width="86%"> <span style="float: left; clear: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> <span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;"> Apr 3, 2006 10:55 AM</span> </span> </span> <span style="float: right; clear: right;"><a href="http://mail.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=mail.reportspam&type=inbox&ToUserID=61541133&messageID=19908890&Mytoken=54A4179C-1511-155C-EE1A8D47029F9CFF18972340" onclick="if (confirm('Are you sure you want to add this message as spam?')) { document.mailForm.submit(); return true; } else { return false; };">Flag </a>spam/abuse. <a href="http://mail.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=mail.flaghelp&type=inbox&ToUserID=61541133&messageID=19908890&Mytoken=54A4179C-1511-155C-EE1A8D47029F9CFF18972340">[ ? ]</a></span> </td> </tr> <tr bg valign="middle" style="color:#ffffff;"> <td bg width="14%" style="color:#e8f1fa;"><span class="blacktext10">Subject:</span></td> <td style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" width="86%"><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" >hey sexy</span></td> </tr> <tr bg valign="middle" style="color:#ffffff;"> <td bg width="14%" style="color:#e8f1fa;"><span class="blacktext10">Body:</span></td> <td width="86%"><span class="blacktextnb10"><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> pretty cant discribe how beautiful u are, u are one of a kind. how u doing today, just saw ur pic n i think u are a nice gurl n God took extra time wen he was creating u. well im Prince Asa by name from the Bronx NY. just wanna get to know u so if u dont mine halla back at me ok stay kool n keep sweet as ever been. </span><br /><br /></span></span></td></tr></tbody></table><br />Are you f'n SERIOUS!!!! Someone please send him a 1 way ticket back to Zamunda.<br /><br />Or this gem:<br /><table bg border="0" cellpadding="5" cellspacing="1" width="100%" style="color:#c5d8eb;"><tbody><tr bg valign="middle" style="color:#ffffff;"><td bg width="14%" style="color:#e8f1fa;"><span class="blacktext10"> From: </span></td> <td width="86%"> <a href="http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=59664326"> <img src="http://x.myspace.com/images/no_pic.gif" alt="" align="absmiddle" border="0" height="75" width="75" /></a> <span class="text"><a href="http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=59664326">Jackqus</a></span> <br /><div style="width: 80px; height: 20px;" id="UserDataNode0" class="DataPoint=OnlineNow;UserID=59664326;"><img src="http://i.myspace.com/site/images/clear.gif" border="0" height="20" width="80" /></div> </td><td style="vertical-align: top;"><br /></td> </tr> <tr bg valign="middle" style="color:#ffffff;"> <td bg width="14%" style="color:#e8f1fa;"><span class="blacktext10">Date:</span></td> <td width="86%"> <span style="float: left; clear: left; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> <span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;"> Mar 31, 2006 8:49 AM</span> </span> </span> <span style="float: right; clear: right;"><a href="http://mail.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=mail.reportspam&type=inbox&ToUserID=59664326&messageID=18413491&Mytoken=F3E5E2BB-CD96-75C8-7936B1DFFCA0050658298538" onclick="if (confirm('Are you sure you want to add this message as spam?')) { document.mailForm.submit(); return true; } else { return false; };">Flag </a>spam/abuse. <a href="http://mail.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=mail.flaghelp&type=inbox&ToUserID=59664326&messageID=18413491&Mytoken=F3E5E2BB-CD96-75C8-7936B1DFFCA0050658298538">[ ? ]</a></span> </td><td style="vertical-align: top;"><br /></td> </tr> <tr bg valign="middle" style="color:#ffffff;"> <td bg width="14%" style="color:#e8f1fa;"><span class="blacktext10">Subject:</span></td> <td style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight: bold;" width="86%"><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" >Just <span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Because</span></span></td><td style="vertical-align: top;"><br /></td> </tr> <tr bg valign="middle" style="color:#ffffff;"> <td bg width="14%" style="color:#e8f1fa;"><span class="blacktext10">Body:</span></td> <td width="86%"><span class="blacktextnb10"><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> Just wanted to say that you look very sexy!!</span>! <br /></span></span></td><td style="vertical-align: top;"><br /></td></tr></tbody></table><br /><table bg="" style="color: rgb(197, 216, 235); width: 25px; height: 8px;" border="0" cellpadding="5" cellspacing="1"><tbody><tr bg="" style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);" valign="middle"><td bg="" style="color: rgb(232, 241, 250);" width="14%"><br /></td><td width="86%"><br /></td></tr><tr bg="" style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);" valign="middle"><td bg="" style="color: rgb(232, 241, 250);" width="14%"><br /></td><td width="86%"><br /></td></tr></tbody></table>...and your point would be? Let us note additionally, that in all of my pictures I am fully clothed. For the women who post half naked pics of themselves, with their asses in the camera shakin it like they are making e-money, I can only imagine how many PMs you get...but I guess you're doing it for that purpose, huh.<br /><br />Let us move on to the more high-brow (please catch the facetiousness) <a href="http://www.hi5.com">Hi-5</a>:<br /><br /><table cellpaddign="0" border="0" cellspacing="2" width="100%"><tbody><tr><td width="20%"><a href="http://www.hi5.com/friend/message/replyToMessage.do?userid=44528279&messageid=387412412" class="link_black" style="border: 1px solid rgb(187, 187, 187); display: block; width: 100%; height: 28px; text-align: center; vertical-align: middle; background-image: url(http://images.hi5.com/images/effects/fade_button.gif);">Reply</a> </td> <td width="20%"> <a href="http://www.hi5.com/friend/message/trashMessage.do?messageid=387412412×tamp=1144081618778" class="link_black" style="border: 1px solid rgb(187, 187, 187); display: block; width: 100%; height: 28px; text-align: center; vertical-align: middle; background-image: url(http://images.hi5.com/images/effects/fade_button.gif);"><img src="http://images.hi5.com/images/clear.gif" border="0" height="5" width="100" /><br />Send to Trash</a> </td> <td width="20%"> <a href="http://www.hi5.com/friend/message/displayMessageCenter.do?type=inbox" class="link_black" style="border: 1px solid rgb(187, 187, 187); display: block; width: 100%; height: 28px; text-align: center; vertical-align: middle; background-image: url(http://images.hi5.com/images/effects/fade_button.gif);"><img src="http://images.hi5.com/images/clear.gif" border="0" height="5" width="100" /><br />Back to Inbox</a> </td> <td width="20%"> <a href="http://www.hi5.com/friend/message/reportMessageSpam.do?messageId=387412412&groupId=&timestamp=1144081618778" class="link_black" style="border: 1px solid rgb(187, 187, 187); display: block; width: 100%; height: 28px; text-align: center; vertical-align: middle; background-image: url(http://images.hi5.com/images/effects/fade_button.gif);"><img src="http://images.hi5.com/images/clear.gif" border="0" height="5" width="90" /><br />Report Spam</a> </td> <td width="20%"> <a href="http://www.hi5.com/friend/message/displayMessage.do?messageid=387412412&blockUser=true&type=inbox" class="link_black" style="border: 1px solid rgb(187, 187, 187); display: block; width: 100%; height: 28px; text-align: center; vertical-align: middle; background-image: url(http://images.hi5.com/images/effects/fade_button.gif);"><img src="http://images.hi5.com/images/clear.gif" border="0" height="5" width="80" /><br />Block User</a> </td> </tr> </tbody></table> <table bgcolor="#bbbbbb" border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="1" width="100%"> <tbody><tr> <td align="center" bgcolor="#eeeeee" width="120"> <div style="padding: 8px;"> <a href="http://www.hi5.com/friend/profile/displayProfile.do?userid=44528279"><img src="http://pics-93.hi5.com/userpics/393/920/92037393.img.small.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /> <a href="http://www.hi5.com/friend/profile/displayProfile.do?userid=44528279" class="username_dark">Jason</a> </div> </td> <td style="padding: 32px;" bgcolor="white"> <table border="0" cellpadding="4" cellspacing="0" width="100%"> <tbody><tr> <td class="text_header_orange" width="150"> From </td> <td class="text_message_info"> Jason </td> </tr> <tr> <td class="text_header_orange" width="150"> To </td> <td class="text_message_info"> Amber </td> </tr> <tr> <td class="text_header_orange" width="150"> Date </td> <td class="text_message_info"> 2-18-2006 2:37 PM </td> </tr> <tr> <td class="text_header_orange" width="150"> Subject </td> <td class="text_message_info"> hello </td> </tr> </tbody></table> </td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" bg="" style="color: rgb(158, 165, 168);" height="20"><span class="text_header"> Message </span></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" style="padding: 16px 32px 16px 152px;" bgcolor="white"> <div class="text_message_body"> i would love to lay you on your stomach and lick your entire ass </div></td></tr></tbody></table><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://imagescommerce.bcentral.com/merchantfiles/4732387/pop3alicegoon.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 90px; height: 161px;" src="http://imagescommerce.bcentral.com/merchantfiles/4732387/pop3alicegoon.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br />How special is that? And raggedy. Sooooo Alice the Goon from Popeye wants to lick my ass. Special. THAT in itself, makes me feel special.<br /><br />Let me note that this fool had sent me a PM before, and apparently didn't get the hint when he didn't get a response:<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><table cellpaddign="0" border="0" cellspacing="2" width="100%"><tbody><tr><td width="20%"><a href="http://www.hi5.com/friend/message/replyToMessage.do?userid=44528279&messageid=352874406" class="link_black" style="border: 1px solid rgb(187, 187, 187); display: block; width: 100%; height: 28px; text-align: center; vertical-align: middle; background-image: url(http://images.hi5.com/images/effects/fade_button.gif);">Reply</a> </td> <td width="20%"> <a href="http://www.hi5.com/friend/message/trashMessage.do?messageid=352874406×tamp=1144081777590" class="link_black" style="border: 1px solid rgb(187, 187, 187); display: block; width: 100%; height: 28px; text-align: center; vertical-align: middle; background-image: url(http://images.hi5.com/images/effects/fade_button.gif);"><img src="http://images.hi5.com/images/clear.gif" border="0" height="5" width="100" /><br />Send to Trash</a> </td> <td width="20%"> <a href="http://www.hi5.com/friend/message/displayMessageCenter.do?type=inbox" class="link_black" style="border: 1px solid rgb(187, 187, 187); display: block; width: 100%; height: 28px; text-align: center; vertical-align: middle; background-image: url(http://images.hi5.com/images/effects/fade_button.gif);"><img src="http://images.hi5.com/images/clear.gif" border="0" height="5" width="100" /><br />Back to Inbox</a> </td> <td width="20%"> <a href="http://www.hi5.com/friend/message/reportMessageSpam.do?messageId=352874406&groupId=&timestamp=1144081777590" class="link_black" style="border: 1px solid rgb(187, 187, 187); display: block; width: 100%; height: 28px; text-align: center; vertical-align: middle; background-image: url(http://images.hi5.com/images/effects/fade_button.gif);"><img src="http://images.hi5.com/images/clear.gif" border="0" height="5" width="90" /><br />Report Spam</a> </td> <td width="20%"> <a href="http://www.hi5.com/friend/message/displayMessage.do?messageid=352874406&blockUser=true&type=inbox" class="link_black" style="border: 1px solid rgb(187, 187, 187); display: block; width: 100%; height: 28px; text-align: center; vertical-align: middle; background-image: url(http://images.hi5.com/images/effects/fade_button.gif);"><img src="http://images.hi5.com/images/clear.gif" border="0" height="5" width="80" /><br />Block User</a> </td> </tr> </tbody></table> <table bgcolor="#bbbbbb" border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="1" width="100%"> <tbody><tr> <td align="center" bgcolor="#eeeeee" width="120"> <div style="padding: 8px;"> <a href="http://www.hi5.com/friend/profile/displayProfile.do?userid=44528279"><img src="http://pics-93.hi5.com/userpics/393/920/92037393.img.small.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /> <a href="http://www.hi5.com/friend/profile/displayProfile.do?userid=44528279" class="username_dark">Jason</a> </div> </td> <td style="padding: 32px;" bgcolor="white"> <table border="0" cellpadding="4" cellspacing="0" width="100%"> <tbody><tr> <td class="text_header_orange" width="150"> From </td> <td class="text_message_info"> Jason </td> </tr> <tr> <td class="text_header_orange" width="150"> To </td> <td class="text_message_info"> Amber </td> </tr> <tr> <td class="text_header_orange" width="150"> Date </td> <td class="text_message_info"> 12-30-2005 8:51 PM </td> </tr> <tr> <td class="text_header_orange" width="150"> Subject </td> <td class="text_message_info"> wow, i think i love you </td> </tr> </tbody></table> </td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" bg="" style="color: rgb(158, 165, 168);" height="20"><span class="text_header"> Message </span></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" style="padding: 16px 32px 16px 152px;" bgcolor="white"> <div class="text_message_body"> you are a hottie </div></td></tr></tbody></table><br />I am <span style="font-size:130%;">not</span> a hottie. I KNOW how to cook my chicken, thank you kindly.<br /><br /><br /><table cellpaddign="0" border="0" cellspacing="2" width="100%"><tbody><tr><td width="20%"><a href="http://www.hi5.com/friend/message/replyToMessage.do?userid=42862639&messageid=301142838" class="link_black" style="border: 1px solid rgb(187, 187, 187); display: block; width: 100%; height: 28px; text-align: center; vertical-align: middle; background-image: url(http://images.hi5.com/images/effects/fade_button.gif);">Reply</a> </td> <td width="20%"> <a href="http://www.hi5.com/friend/message/trashMessage.do?messageid=301142838×tamp=1144081852718" class="link_black" style="border: 1px solid rgb(187, 187, 187); display: block; width: 100%; height: 28px; text-align: center; vertical-align: middle; background-image: url(http://images.hi5.com/images/effects/fade_button.gif);"><img src="http://images.hi5.com/images/clear.gif" border="0" height="5" width="100" /><br />Send to Trash</a> </td> <td width="20%"> <a href="http://www.hi5.com/friend/message/displayMessageCenter.do?type=inbox" class="link_black" style="border: 1px solid rgb(187, 187, 187); display: block; width: 100%; height: 28px; text-align: center; vertical-align: middle; background-image: url(http://images.hi5.com/images/effects/fade_button.gif);"><img src="http://images.hi5.com/images/clear.gif" border="0" height="5" width="100" /><br />Back to Inbox</a> </td> <td width="20%"> <a href="http://www.hi5.com/friend/message/reportMessageSpam.do?messageId=301142838&groupId=&timestamp=1144081852718" class="link_black" style="border: 1px solid rgb(187, 187, 187); display: block; width: 100%; height: 28px; text-align: center; vertical-align: middle; background-image: url(http://images.hi5.com/images/effects/fade_button.gif);"><img src="http://images.hi5.com/images/clear.gif" border="0" height="5" width="90" /><br />Report Spam</a> </td> <td width="20%"> <a href="http://www.hi5.com/friend/message/displayMessage.do?messageid=301142838&blockUser=true&type=inbox" class="link_black" style="border: 1px solid rgb(187, 187, 187); display: block; width: 100%; height: 28px; text-align: center; vertical-align: middle; background-image: url(http://images.hi5.com/images/effects/fade_button.gif);"><img src="http://images.hi5.com/images/clear.gif" border="0" height="5" width="80" /><br />Block User</a> </td> </tr> </tbody></table> <table bgcolor="#bbbbbb" border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="1" width="100%"> <tbody><tr> <td align="center" bgcolor="#eeeeee" width="120"> <div style="padding: 8px;"> <a href="http://www.hi5.com/friend/profile/displayProfile.do?userid=42862639"><img src="http://images.hi5.com/images/nophoto_boy.gif" border="0" /></a><br /> <a href="http://www.hi5.com/friend/profile/displayProfile.do?userid=42862639" class="username_dark">Mitch</a> </div> </td> <td style="padding: 32px;" bgcolor="white"> <table border="0" cellpadding="4" cellspacing="0" width="100%"> <tbody><tr> <td class="text_header_orange" width="150"> From </td> <td class="text_message_info"> Mitch </td> </tr> <tr> <td class="text_header_orange" width="150"> To </td> <td class="text_message_info"> Amber </td> </tr> <tr> <td class="text_header_orange" width="150"> Date </td> <td class="text_message_info"> 10-20-2005 3:16 PM </td> </tr> <tr> <td class="text_header_orange" width="150"> Subject </td> <td class="text_message_info"> hi </td> </tr> </tbody></table> </td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" bg="" style="color: rgb(158, 165, 168);" height="20"><span class="text_header"> Message </span></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" style="padding: 16px 32px 16px 152px;" bgcolor="white"> <div class="text_message_body"> Hey what up tell me lot about you cause by looking arround i've seen your pic and i tell my self there are still wonderful american girls in Tennesse if you want to we could stay in touch.<br />waiting for your answer.<br /><br />See ya </div></td></tr></tbody></table><br />What is THIS shit! Obviously, Mitch is still waiting. Most likely, for his green card.<br /><br />I have the sinking feeling that if I posted on any of these sites that I was married with 8 kids, i'd still get the obligatory<span style="font-weight: bold;"> "you're HOT, wanna get together?"</span> private messages. WHY? There are PLENTY of low self-esteem having broads on these sites who flash their boobs for the camera, and try their best to post sexily for the camera, with it placed purposefully close to their vaginas.<br /><br />Stay in your lane!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25250426.post-1144007473369636282006-04-02T12:43:00.000-07:002006-04-02T12:51:13.380-07:00Celebreality: Flavor of Love ReunionSo, with all the stress that is going on my life, I can't wait to see the Flavor of Love reunion.<br /><br /> <object width="425" height="350"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/w4VQd-A1PKU"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/w4VQd-A1PKU" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="350"></embed></object><br /><br />It's kind of like, watching a bad car accident when you should keep driving, but you can't stop watching it, just in case you see someone bloody being pulled out the car. (Sick, ain't it?)<br /><br />I live in complete duplicity when it comes to the "Flavor Of Love"Spit.<br /><br />1. New York deserved to be spit on.<br />2. Pumpkin was a lame white girl who shoulda known that you don't spit on someone until you are DONE wooping their ass.<br />3. New York deserves to beat Pumpkin at least in her boob for such an indiscretion.<br />4. I don't like New York, though.<br />5. Why can't I stop watching this show?<br />6. Why am I mad the show is over?<br /><br />It truly is a guilty pleasure, as we all know that no one wants Flava Flav's ass, it's all about getting famous. But then again, what if love came out of it? that COULDA happened (not).<br /><br />As most of us who followed the show know now, Hoopz has gone on to revel in her 15 minutes of fame w/o a thought of Flav, and Flav, has already signed on for his 2nd season of Flavor of Love, to look for some more hoes he can fugg on his show while they are in desperate search of fame.<br /><br />Can we be mad at either party, as they both have provided us with such entertainment?<br /><br />I can't give you an answer on that one. However, don't miss the Flavor of Love Reunion show, tonight on VH1!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com3